Intimate Weddings vs Elopements: What is the Difference?

When it comes to celebrating love, couples today have many options beyond the traditional large-scale wedding.

Two increasingly popular choices are intimate weddings and elopements.

But what exactly is the difference between the two?

While both offer a more personal and relaxed experience, the key distinctions lie in guest count, location and ceremony style.

Let’s explore these differences in detail.

What is an intimate wedding?

An intimate wedding is a scaled-down version of a traditional wedding, typically with 20-50 guests.

This allows couples to celebrate with their closest family and friends while maintaining a more personal, relaxed atmosphere.

Guest count

An intimate wedding generally includes a small, hand-picked group of guests, allowing the couple to focus on sharing special moments with those who matter most.

This smaller gathering can make the day feel less overwhelming and more personal.

Venue and location

With fewer guests, couples have more flexibility in choosing a venue.

From charming gardens to cozy inns (or even backyards), intimate weddings allow you to get creative with the setting.

Couples often look for destinations that reflect their personality, knowing they won’t need to accommodate hundreds of people. It’s a great setting to take some amazing intimate portraits.

Ceremony and reception

While intimate weddings are smaller, they often follow the traditional structure of a wedding ceremony and reception.

Couples exchange vows in front of their guests, followed by a dinner or celebration that mirrors the feel of a larger wedding – just on a smaller scale.

What is an elopement?

Elopements are even more scaled back.

They involve just the couple and a few key witnesses, or sometimes no guests at all.

Guest count

Elopements are typically private affairs, with just the couple and perhaps a celebrant and elopement photographer.
Some couples choose to invite one or two witnesses or close friends.

But for many, elopements are a deeply personal experience shared between only the two of them.

Venue and location

Since elopements are usually more spontaneous and less structured, the venue can be anywhere – from a mountaintop to a city hall.

The location is often more meaningful and intimate, providing an opportunity for the couple to choose a special place without worrying about accommodating guests.

Ceremony and style

The beauty of an elopement lies in its simplicity. Couples don’t have to be bothered with many traditional wedding formalities, making the ceremony feel more authentic to their relationship.

Whether it’s exchanging vows at sunrise on a secluded beach or saying & “I do” in an urban courthouse, elopements focus purely on the union without added fanfare.

(If you’re thinking about eloping to Tasmania, there are five destinations in particular that are definitely worth checking out!)

Need a photographer for your upcoming big day?

Whether you’re planning an intimate wedding or a heartfelt elopement, capturing these special moments is key to preserving your memories.

That’s where Linda Pasfield Photography comes in.

Linda is an award-winning and highly experienced wedding photographer in Tasmania renowned for her ability to document weddings with stunning photography.

Her passion for creating timeless, romantic images ensures that every glance, smile and tear is captured with the utmost care and creativity.

No matter the size or style of your celebration, Linda Pasfield will make sure your wedding photos are just as unforgettable as the day itself.

If you’re searching for the ideal wedding photographer to immortalise your love story, look no further! Linda is the photographer you want by your side.

You can get in touch with Linda right here.